How to adhere to a committed relationship?

Commitment is very crucial and mature aspect of a man and women relationship. It depicts that the couple are ready to involve in love, sacrifice, understand and are prepared to spend their whole time with each other. The commitment towards your partner gives your life stability, resilience and belief making it beautiful and healthy. Here are the qualities that every partner must have to be happy in a committed relationship.

Be clear yourself: Try to be clear to yourself about the love of a person you are going to be committed with. Listen to your heart, if you are overjoyed at the name or thought of your lover or the idea of meeting him/her and a sense of loyalty emanates from within, then you are on the right track. It will be a wise decision to get committed to that person because your heart tells you that.

Honesty: Honesty is one of the other important qualities that you must hold on. Make sure you are not hiding many a things from your lover although they do have a right to know about.

Spend Quality time with each other: Spending a good amount of time is an important thing before going into a serious relationship. Time lets you know the person, his/her likes and dislikes, nature and habits etc in detail and provides you the opportunity to understand how much you relate to or are comfortable with the other person to go into a long term relationship
Equality: It is the most important aspect for a committed relationship. None of the two should consider him/her self higher or superior than other. With the sense of equality, comes a sense of comfort and settlement in a relationship as the individual feels empowered and in control. If you have any ego, try to cut it down when it comes to your partner.

Respect and share responsibilities: to have a happy and long term relationship one must respect each other. In any circumstance, he/she should not degrade their partner. In taking decisions give importance to your partner and take suggestions from her. When it comes to responsibilities it should not be in the hands of only one. Share the responsibilities equally for healthy relationship, may that be finance, household or children.

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