First night sex myths debunked

The first night for a mate is a night of bliss and breathtaking for both the partners. If it is arranged marriage, then there will be too many preconceived notions and too many expectations regarding marriage, in particular consummation. One of the things being the first night myths. Here's a list of things not to expect on your first night.

Have sex talk: Talk about sex. Share your fantasies and things you want in bed.  Definitely this will be the best method which works soon. 

You first: don’t expect your partner to take initiative. And even it is not right always to expect a man to take initiative. As it is the first time try to read your partner mind and do it accordingly. But if both of you keep on waiting for each other, you might land up waiting all night.

Crazy sex: As it your first time, don’t expect rocking night. Think practical, as you will be tired after your marriage and reception function. So give each other some benefit of doubt to each other and not expect any rocking performance. Try to be happy even if it were some nice sessions of cuddling and intimacy.

Big O: Exploring and learn about each other’s bodies and preferences. Don’t expect a happy ending too soon. When it comes to women, it will take some time to experience the orgasm. So take some time, try in a smooth way and enjoy the process inspite of expecting a happy ending.
 
Pain: Don’t feel panic about first night pain. Mostly will hurt but enough foreplay will help you aroused and thus it will make penetration easy causing little pain. If you are too worried then try using lubrication.

Pornalicious: Don’t be so dramatic by matching porn movies as most of the stuff in porn movies is fake (including the orgasms and breasts). So don’t try to match it up with real sex.
 
Bloody mess: The myth that every virgin has to bleed the first time she has sex is a very old one. Bleeding and virginity are not related. The bleeding occurs because of hymen rupture and sex is not the only way that happens. So don’t keep this in mind.

Fake orgasm: As it is your first time, don’t fake an orgasm to make him happy. Since this is going to be the beginning of your journey to the most intimate moments, instead of faking all types of ecstatic emotions, just be romantic and talk about your preferences and know-how about sexual positions.

AW: Lizitha